"Sorry, he had it first"....(give toy back to original owner, thief child screams)
"Could you please share that?" (setting toy back on the floor between two or more children-child trying to take off with toy screams while they try to take it and walk away with it again so they don't have to, other children who want the toy to stay scream)
"That's mommy's (or that's daddy's or Jovian's), not a toy." (Walk away with object, child who had forbidden object screams)
I could go on, but pretty much it is a cycle of someone taking and someone screaming. We understand that this is all a part of learning how to live in a family and how to play nice so I try to see the humor in it as they move through this phase. They all have varying types of scream so there's no doubt who believes they've been wronged.
Mylo: foot stomp, cry, pout and hug mom or dad's leg to get them to right the wrong
Oscar: Pterodactyl screach and then look at mom and dad with helpless, "why aren't you doing something eyes?!"
Victor: two extremes, push the thief out of the way and take toy back without a sound or a cry of pure sorrow until his toy is back in his hands.
There are certainly breaks (many of them) between the stealing and screaming and these moments where they play together happily are a source of complete and utter joy in this house.
This little video captures a little bit of everything...2 minutes of triplet playtime, even with a little bit of the screeching it makes me smile.
and there are also the times they spend cracking each other up; there is truly nothing better than that!